Relax the throat. There’s no such thing as too big to suck…
Lie on your back, head over the side of the mattress. This angle helps you avoid your gag reflex.
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It can also allow him to take over the pace. If you’re into being face-fucked. :)
As a person with a tiny mouth (seriously, I’ve had dentists and doctors remark on it) who has had to find additional ways to please while giving head (there was one special guy who liked a tiny bit of teeth action but like I said he was…special), I would like to point out that while deep-throating is nice, there are other things you can do as well.
-starting at the base (you may need to tilt your head), run your lips along the corpus spongiosum (the ridge along the bottom of the penis) applying gentle sucking pressure as you go, then when you get to the end and reach the frenulum, give it extra sucking attention, sometimes rolling it gently between your lips. But be careful and time it correctly - the frenulum the most sensitive area of the penis and you can overdo it and hurt the guy if you’re not careful or if he’s not aroused enough. (Kind of like women and direct attention to the clitoris.)
-run your tongue around and under the ridge of the glans
-dip the end of your tongue very slightly into the end of his urethra. You can also play with the urethra with your fingers while your lips are on the shaft.
-use your hands to give stimulation to the shaft while moving just the glans into and out of your mouth (using gentle pressure with your lips as they move over the glans ridge on the out stroke)
-don’t forget to give the balls some love, too.
Ladies, any other BJ tips? Come on, I know there are more. :)…
BJ tips…hmm… Balls. Always tug on the balls. I’ve got my tongue pierced, so I use my hand at the base a lot while I twirl my tongue around the head. Otherwise I have to try and keep my tongue pressed to the bottom of my mouth if I deep throat so it’s not like, metal scraping up and down the underside. It’s fun for a bit though. Also sometimes I slip the ball of my barbell into the edge of the urethra. Make sure it’s tightened if you try it though!
I’m serious about the ball tugging. Wrap your fingers around the skin just above them, between the cock and the balls…and pull, gently if you’ve never done it so he doesn’t think you’re trying to rip them off.
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- if your guy’s uncut, use your lips to slide the foreskin up and down the tip. You have to use plenty of spit to make sure there’s enough lubrication.
- tugging the balls, I support that. Also gently suck the skin of the balls, and lick them. Start from the perineum (the area between his balls and anus), flat tongue with pressure, go lighter when you reach the balls. You can take them into your mouth as well (yes, I mean it). One ball at a time, kind of suck them in. And be very very gentle.
- on shaft use your tongue, you just don’t have to suck him, lick him all over the place, go flat, go sharp, nip the skin with your lips. When working on the shaft you can use more pressure, as it’s not as sensitive as the tip or the balls.
And ask him what he likes.